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With over 6,000 reviews on Amazon, these wedges from Clarks are popular for the cushioning rubber sole that reviewers call "absurdly comfortable: Soft, lightweight and breathable." Though our experts haven't tried this one, we appreciate that its 2.75-inch heel provides enough height without the risk of toppling over or twisting an ankle

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I get it, and I know not everyone feels comfortable being centre stage, so I agree its important to get the balance right, but honestly, this is not the time to play safe or blend in